You carry it all, the emotions, the weight, the responsibility.
You give endlessly, and no one sees the cost.
This is where the patterns end.
Where your needs matter. Where healing begins not by giving more, but by finally choosing you.
Hi! I'm
ben eden
I work with people who feel like no matter how much they give, how hard they try, or how deeply they care, nothing ever seems to give back.
I'm a Trauma Therapist, Ancestral Healing Facilitator, and Evidential Psychic Medium,and the work I do is about breaking the life patterns that repeat over and over, often for generations. Patterns that leave you overgiving, unseen, unsupported, and stuck in emotional survival.
This is deep, root-level healing that meets you where it began in your body, your lineage, and your suppressed emotions, so you can finally live a life that actually nourishes you.
The Sacred Return
Healing the patterns that keep you over-giving, emotionally unmet, and quietly exhausted.
You’ve spent your life holding everything together for everyone, but yourself.
Saying yes when you meant no.
Giving more than you had, again and again.
Taking care of everyone else’s needs without even knowing your own.
You’ve been the strong one. and the one they depend on, without a doubt, always there when they need you.
But when you need something? It’s silence, conflict and abandonment.
And deep down, you’re scared that if you stop giving, you’ll stop being loved.
You’re not just burnt out, you are done with this pattern.
The Sacred Return is a live membership where we unravel these patterns at the root, the inherited ones, the emotional ones, the ones your body is still carrying, and return you to the version of yourself who feels safe, supported, and fully seen.
This is ancestral healing and trauma work that rewires your emotional body and shifts your energy at the root.
2x live Group Zoom sessions a month
$555 AUD a month
Why You Became Who You Are
You didn’t just become an overgiver.
You were trained into it by the people who were meant to make you feel safe.
Love came when you were quiet, helpful, and easy to manage.
You were praised for having no needs.
Taught that love had to be earned.
That to belong, you had to abandon yourself.
And when you said no, broke down, or spoke up, you were met with silence, distance, and conflict.
So you adapted.
You became who they needed.
You held it all.
You built your identity around being the one everyone could rely on —
because deep down, you believed that if they needed you, they wouldn’t leave.
Now, you say yes when your body says no.
You overextend, emotionally, physically, and financially — then feel guilt for feeling resentful.
You keep the peace by staying silent.
You try to rest, but can’t.
You long to be supported, but you don’t know how to let yourself receive it.
Because underneath it all,
a part of you still believes:
If I stop giving… I’ll stop being loved.
After This Work — The Life That Finally Meets You Back
Imagine… you wake up feeling rested and clear.
Your body feels light and your mind feels spacious.
There’s a calm sense of aliveness moving through you. You feel steady, grounded, and true.
You get out of bed and walk downstairs.
The house feels peaceful, warm, and held.
Your partner, the one who sees you, respects you, and supports you, has made breakfast.
They’ve tidied the space, checked what’s ahead for the day, and gently ask what you need.
Together, you make a plan that feels soft, doable, and supported.
You eat slowly, fully present.
There’s no rush, no performance, just ease.
You feel considered. You feel met.
You feel so seen and heard by the people around you — without needing to prove, explain, or give anything in return.
Later, you glance at your calendar.
There’s space.
And one thing on there lights you up.
A live session for the program you created.
The one that came straight from your healing, your truth, and your soul.
It’s full. The women inside feel like a soul-match.
And the impact? You can already feel it rippling out.
You go live.
You don’t rehearse. You don’t question yourself.
You speak from your centre and it lands.
You feel confident in who you are.
You trust your own ideas and opinions the moment they arise — without second-guessing or shrinking.
Your voice feels strong. Your energy feels grounded.
You finally feel like yourself — fully.
Afterwards, you close your laptop and smile.
It was you. Fully expressed. Fully grounded.
Later, someone you care about asks for your energy.
You check in with your body. You feel into your capacity.
And you say, “Not today.”
it’s clean, clear, and considered.
And it’s met with love.
You feel supported.
You feel emotionally held.
You feel proud because this is the life you built by choosing yourself.
You realise, you are completley accepted for who you are and loved unconditionally.
You are finally free.
Everything feels simple, aligned, and spacious.
Your work moves people.
The healing you’ve done now lives inside the spaces you create, and it has changed lives.
You see it in the messages. You feel it in the calls.
People tell you they’ve never felt transformation like this.
You’ve helped women heal their deepest wounds.
You’ve broken patterns that have existed for generations.
You’ve contributed powerfully to a rising consciousness on this planet.
And you did it by becoming fully you.
Your healing Journey Starts Today
Your future self is already thanking you
Step Into Your Power Now!
